remember that nobody wants to hear you talk about social justice issues
not even your friends
your friends will hear you out up until the moment you start encroaching on their comfort zone
point out that their favorite artist has said problematic things and suddenly you become the debbie downer
this has been a post
You might want to get a new group of friends then. Even my friends not in social justice (though to be honest, I am not anymore either thanks to tumblr) do not call me a debbie downer for pointing out problematic elements of their favorite artist, tv show, etc. They already know the problematic elements of all of them and have no problem discussing them. Maybe I have an open minded group of friends or you go about talking to your friends all wrong.